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WHY WE FAIL IN OUR LIFE?|5 solid reason behind it?

Everybody has dreams and everyone wants to achieve his goal but everyone could not achieve his goal. Everyone wants to get peace in life but everyone could not get. Everyone wants to live a happy life but everyone could not do. Why ? why we fail in life. Is there any reason behind it? Yes, there are a lot of mistakes we do in our life we could achieve it.

In our life, we can not achieve that goal we want to achieve. We achieve those goals in our life that we want to achieve at any cost. Here are the five reasons we do and fail in our life.

Lack of clarity

The biggest mistake we ever made in our life is that we don't have a goal. We don't want to do anything but we want to get everything. There is a famous saying that:

                     A man without a dream is like a man without a soul

so, we should have some goal in our life .we should see dreams in our life. We should try though we fail.





Secondly, we follow the culture. We thought My father is a doctor I shall become a doctor. My father is a worker I shall become a worker. My father is a businessman i shall become a businessman. Or we see the only lifestyle of the other people and decide to become like him. For example, he is a lawyer. He is earning good money so I would become a lawyer. We don't see our passion. After a few years, we see that Ali is Manager he is living a luxury life so I shall become a bank manager. We follow trend not our passion and we fail.

 Lack of Will Power


In our life, we don't plan anything. We follow the others and not our plan. Secondly, if we made and a plan we don't have will power to achieve it. We could not achieve them because we don't make commitments with us. So at the result, we fail.


No Determination


If a man has the determination to do anything he surely achieves his goal. The war is not won by weapons it is won by the power of determination and will power. We have a lack of determination. That's the reason we fail in our life.


Lack of Consistency


If you are walking on a road towards your goal you will reach your destiny. But if you are walking on different roads randomly you shall never reach a goal though your goal is not too big. There is a famous saying that:

                                       Consistency is the key to success.

The biggest mistake we made in our decision and goals is the lack of consistency. That's why we fail in our life. There should be a solid reason why you want to become a successful person. What is behind your destination?



Low Self-Confidence

The biggest mistake I have ever made in my life and many people used to do is low self-confidence. We have low confidence because we don't want to do it. If we want to do it then we have no idea about it how to do it. If we have an idea then we have no extreme knowledge about it.






 If we have knowledge about it then we have low confidence that what would people say? If I would fail then people will start joking me. Thousands of the things came in our mind and decrease in our self-confidence. So we should believe in our self in God that if we fail at least we shall get the taste of failure and the next time we shall to do it better. At least we shall have experience of failure. So:

                                                      Failure should be an option
So we should remember these weak points of us and we should start our journey. Just do remember me in your prayers.

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